Noir Neutrals


So many of my wardrobe staples are black, I often forget there are other rich neutrals that can mix in just as well. I'll admit I even felt a little weird pairing these pieces together - oxblood + olive + blue gray. How... colorful? Maybe for a girl who uses black as an anchor to every outfit. It's slimming, chic, and goes with everything, which is why it's always the first color I go to if I'm investing in something pricier that I expect to have forever. But my latest challenge is to stray a bit from the black and start playing with other sleek, sophisticated colors. These Alexander Wang booties were my first non-black investment shoes and I like where they've taken my wardrobe. I've still got the Helmut Lang oxblood version of my black waxed skinnies (seen here) on my list as well. It's a whole new world of possibilities.

BCBG blazer (last seen here), Gold Hawk top, Joe's jeans, Alexander Wang booties, 3.1 Phillip Lim pouch, Tom Ford sunglasses, Michael Kors watch, Forever 21 necklace, NARS Scarlett Empress lipstick

Photos by Ian Sheppard

My Louis Vuitton Speedy 35 is for sale!


Pink & Purple Night





IMG_0067 Forever 21 jacket (old), J.Crew top (old), Current/Elliott jeans, Shoedazzle clutch (c/o), Pour La Victoire shoes, Bracelets: Forever21, J.Crew, H&M, Nails: OPI Mod About You

I was excited to find these Current/Elliott purple snakeskin jeans on sale last week. I first pictured them dressed down with an oversized tee and boots, but that idea quickly fell by the wayside when my black disc sequin top and patent heels were calling my name for an evening out. I added this sassy woven clutch to pay tribute to the little girl in me who always named pink and purple as her favorite colors (obviously).

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Wardrobe Refresher: All About Jeans

During a closet detox last week, I realized that my stack of denim was in need of an update - certain pairs just weren't fitting as well as they should, and what used to be my "fancy jeans" are now my Sunday morning jeans. As I searched for the next members of my jeans family, I got to thinking about what would make the perfect jean collection. No matter what your personal style gravitates towards, you can always fall back on a good pair of jeans. They're perfect for  everything, from walking the dog to swanky nights out.

What Stays, What Goes

While it's fun to watch our favorite pairs age over the years, it is important to stay on top of your jeans - make sure they fit, and don't wear out (in a bad way). Fading in the legs = good. Holes in the crotch = bad. I'll admit: I'm one of those people whose weight fluctuates within 3 jeans sizes from year to year. While I would normally say you should get rid of things that just don't fit you, jeans are sometimes the one exception to that rule. That is, if your size does change from time to time, and you have good quality jeans that are actually worth saving for a rainy day. In other words, ditch that pair you got for $20 at Old Navy 2 years ago and never really flattered you to begin with, but save the pair of 7's you only wore once during Week 3 of the South Beach Diet - they'll give you something to work towards. I suggest finding a nice hidden spot to store GOOD pairs of jeans that aren't your size right now, so they are out of plain view. But when your weight changes, for better or worse, you'll be glad you kept them.

These can go.
A real keeper

The Perfect Collection

While we're reassessing our denim, I thought I'd take this time to share with you my idea of the perfect jeans collection. Of course, it would be nice if one pair served all purposes, but once you indulge in a couple more, you'll be surprised you ever lived without a few different choices.

The Go To Jean Of course, the Go To jean will be different for everyone, but it's the one you reach for the most. I recommend finding a medium to dark denim with a basic fade on the leg, which has a slimming effect and goes with everything from t-shirts to sequins. Whether you choose skinny or flare is based on your personal preference, but definitely make sure it's a flattering fit and sufficient length. Based on body type, here are my recommendations:

Curvy - Joe's, GAP Straight Hips - 7 For All Mankind Tall - Rock & Republic Petite - Hudson, Miss Me, Forever 21 All - True Religion, J Brand

The Farmers Market Jean This one is more important than you may realize. We all have those days in the summer when we need to throw something on and embark on a day of casual errands, and your regular jeans seem too dark and heavy. The Farmers Market jean is your uniform for all things laid back, or casually active. My personal favorite is the AG Stilt in 18 years aged (at Calypso, they're marked down from $255 to $140, AND you get 20% off your first order!). It's got the chill vibe of a boyfriend jean, only without the frumpiness. Since they have a slight crop, I like to wear them rolled up a bit, which makes them perfect for summer with your favorite pair of flats or gladiator sandals.

AG Stilt 18 Year, $255 ($141 at Calypso)

The GNO Jean Everyone needs a great pair of jeans for Girls Night Out when you're not in the mood for a dress or skirt. I recommend a dark pair of skinny jeans, preferably with the tiniest bit of flare at the bottom, so they don't bunch at the ankle, and elongate your leg when worn with heels. I love the True Religion Disco Julie, on which all of the hardware are Swarovski crystals. Yeah, they're a bit of a bank breaker, but you're giving your money to a good company. All True Religions are handmade in LA (with the exception of the kids' jeans), and have a magical fit that molds to your body without ever getting saggy or bunchy. Love!

True Religion Disco Julie, $297

The Pedicure Jean In the time of skinny jeans and jeggings, it's easy to forget that the boot cut or straight leg is still a good one to keep around. They're flattering with sneakers and heels, and come in handy when you have to roll up the leg for sufficient pedicure access. Rather than go back to your flares from 3 years ago, it's nice to update this pair for a more current and deliberate look. Have some fun with rips or embellishments!

"A" Pocket in Destroyed Beverly Glen by 7 For All Mankind, $198

The Statement Jean This jean may not be for everyone, but every now and then, my attention is captured by a frivolous and fabulous pair of jeans. It's fun to own at least one pair that makes a statement, whether you're getting on a plane, or dancing on a table.

The Crazy B!@#H by Rock & Republic, $248

I hope this inspired you go through your jeans collection and make some edits. Any you don't want to keep, but can't seem to get rid of? Don't forget you can always bring out the scissors and turn them into your go-to shabby cut offs!